I was reading about feminism, reading all of the really dumb people classified as "feminists" opinions, lacking the fundamental understanding that feminism is not just for woman. It is classified as the equal rights for men and woman. EQUAL RIGHTS. That means that issues around equality need to be addressed for both men and woman.
When you see a "feminist" with double standards, and huge obnoxious opinions, where they treat all men like rapist wife beaters, who need to open doors, pay for dates, and protecting them all while sharing their emotions, all you are doing is not understanding that over generalising all men under one roof and expecting men to act a certain way is adding to the problem.
Every man is different. Don't act like one mans sin is every mans sin, all the while aggressively fighting over generalisations of woman.
What is it with certain (Not all) But some woman sitting there acting like any woman who chooses to be a stay at home mother, tending to "Wifely duties" cooking, cleaning and so on is someone who believes that men should be "in charge".
No any woman can choose what she wants for her life. Any man can choose what he wants for his life. The only conditions is that a person of any gender should live their lives within the limits of the law, with morals, and respect for those around them.
People with ideas of how men and women are to live their lives based on the modern world and new century beliefs, who claim to be fighting a battle our ancestors created, thereby condemning anyone who continues to behave "like that world still exists" has got it wrong.
The new woman bullshit where people say that a real woman has a full time job, does the cooking, cleaning and looking after the kids is wrong. No the real woman, is any woman, no matter how she chooses to live her life. Firstly, to put pressure on a woman to live up to those standards is sexist, not all woman can and want to do this, so saying that a woman now needs to fill both the male and female stereotypical roles is forgetting that in relationship there is a man and a woman, no not different genders to fill their desired roles, two individuals to complete all the tasks around the home as they see fit.
That means that in a relationship a man can stay home and look after the kids, a man can be a stay at home dad, the woman doesn't have to do it all, should she wish to, she is more then welcome too, much like a man can decide what he wants to do, but to shame other woman for not fulfilling these new ideals is to create more sexism and feeling of inferiority amongst woman, to create more division rather then address the original controversy all ready present in society. In layman's terms creating more problems.
So stop trying to create equal rights between men and woman, by forcing woman to all act superior, trying to prove that woman can do everything and that a man is essentially useless, and instead focus on the important stuff that really separates men and woman; jobs, pay, emotions, just to list a few.
Because you will find that some woman are just as sexiest towards men as is associated with men towards woman. The grass isn't greener to be a man, try having a large percentage of woman believe a man is also a rapist and to be feared, instead of realising rapists can be men.
My solution to this huge problem. Cut out gender entirely, doesn't matter, isn't mentioned and no one is supposed to act a certain way based on what they have downstairs. People are free to act how they want, do what they want and wear what they want. They get a job, get married and go about their lives any which way they see fit, because being a woman and being a man doesn't mean anything, it only exists to describe their junk, or it doesn't exist at all, problems would go away if people stopped thinking that being a "man" or a "woman" actually means something. Everyone says men and woman are different, it is in their DNA, how about this, every person is different, and that is loosely reliant on their gender, and more reliant on society who tell them about themselves based solely on gender stereotypes. If you stopped teaching kids what toys to play with, which way to cut their hair, how to behave, so on and so forth, then they would grow up who they want, unswayed by any misojonistic views completely individual to themselves and their would be no division. Only then, would the world be equal.
Where is this world going, woman fearing to walk the streets at night because of rapists, I understand that people have to stay safe, be realistic, some men rape woman. To say 'I will walk around dangerous parts of the city because I believe all men are good' Isn't what I am saying. I am saying to stop the stupid crap about woman being scared to even stand in the same room as a man, for fear he will take you right there and then.
Not all men are rapists, and not all rapists are men. Yeah some men rape, in fact there has been a steady incline in male men being arrested for such activities but so to has there been female arrests. What I wonder is, how has societies way of treating men affecting them? I never believe in blaming others, but the way we are raised plays a huge part (Nurture of nature), it isn't in their DNA, it is all in how we treat individuals. Is it acceptable, that small girls, no older then five mimicking what their parents say, call young boys rapists with our knowing what it means. Is it beneficial having parents tell their young girls, to be careful around boys at school because they can be mean. Telling girls that boys will take advantage if you give them the chance. At what point is warning your child about dangers crossing the line between safety and causality. Teaching each new generation to fear boys more and more, at what cost.
Where is our world going. I don't have a realistic way to fix it, I don't have to, sometimes damage is done that cant be fixed and I believe no damage is permanent we just need to know where we want to go. I believe if you want a change bad enough you can make it. Maybe not on this scale as an individual but small steps at a time.
At this rate, it will get worse, everything will get worse. Look around, is this really the world any of us want to raise out kids in?
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