So I got in another fight with my mother, It upsets me how often she changes the past, because we I have a problem when something she will say something making out like there isn't much of a problem to begin with, she belittles my feelings by changing the past and making it out to be much less of a big deal then it really was. I cant express my feeling to my mother, it is infuriating that I cant have a conversation with her, or talk about my opinion of a situation with out her getting upset and offended. I don't know how to tell her that she changes the past all the time to suit her, that it didn't happen that way it happened this way. it is hard living with her, and I am trying my best but today a fight broke out over nothing, she said one thing and I responded and she said well it only happened once, and it didn't happen once and my problem wasn't that the event occurred it was that she was once again changing things, making them into less of a big deal by just making crap up and i didn't even have an issue with the well issue. But of course she seemed to think my only problem was that it had happened instead of understanding yeah it happened a lot, which I didn't have a problem, with, well actually I did at the time but I cant admit that to her can I because she has completely changed everything and if I said anything it would just become me making a mountain out of a mole hole. :)
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